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| love ; the substance that is way more addicting than caffinethere are a million differant reasons to smile, but I smile because of you THINK before you piss off a girl because she knows where it hurts the most ;] here's to the crazy ones. the misfits. the rebels. the troublemakers. the round pegs in the square holes. the ones who see things differently. they aren't fond of rules. you can quote them, disagree with them, the only thing you can't do is ignore them; because they change things. while some see them as the crazy ones, i see genious. because the people who think they're crazy enough to change the world, are the ones that do what you have done is the past. & you alone get to determine what your future will be. you are not your past. you are what is possible for you. own this truth & go foward in your life. forgive yourself, & others will be able to forgive you * Oprah Winfrey you ever look at a picture and see a stranger in the background? it makes you wonder how many strangers have pictures of you, how many moments of other people's lives we've been in. were we a part of a stranger's life when their dream came true, or were we there when their dreams died? did we keep trying to get in as if we were destined to be there, or did the shot take us by surprise? and not even know it. the reason no one is perfect is because everyone's perspective on perfection is different in their own mind we're teenagers some may lie and some may cheat we get caught sneaking out late and talking to our boyfriends when we should be doing homework in the long run thats not what makes us who we are but it's the vulnerability that runs through our blood it allows us to get hurt. but all it's doing is setting an impression, for who we are when these sneaking out years, are over. when you love someone, you go through stages. you dont just automatically get the feeling that you love them. you have to get to know them first, & then you slowly learn to trust. & then you start believing them. then you want to be with them more & more, to the point where you're jealous of anyone who tries to be with that person. & then it gets you mad, so mad until you get past that point, to the point where you cant be jealous anymore. you cant because you have this undying confidence that this person will never leave you, they will never betray you, & that they would never pick someone else over you, that you cant be replaced. thats when the confidence hits you, when you know you love him, that they love you, & that the love you share is unbreakable getting through life and growing up, you tend to get hurt and get your heart crushed. but what you have to realize is that if God had intended you two to be together, He will find a way. but if you two don't end up together... that just means there is someone out there who is more perfect waiting for you i've learned many things in life to know what love really is. i also went through a lot. i do believe that things happen for a reason & it'll be for the better. & time will only tell what will happen in your life. i've learned that your mistakes are the effects of what you become. as for me, my mistakes make me stronger & become something unexpected. the best things come unexpectedly. that's what's so great about life. you dont know who you'll stay friends with or be with, or even marry & have kids with. if you got something good, hold onto it, cause you never know when they might just flow away when you dont even know it. when you got something good, always cherish it. if you got somebody that loves you, & you love them back, take advantage of the love you have for each other taking chances is really just about overcoming your fears, because the truth is, everytime you take a big risk in your life, no matter how it ends up, you're always glad you took it its not how far you fall, but how high you bounce back * Two A Days sometimes it's easier to feel like you're the only one in the world who's struggling, who's frustrated or unsatisfied, or barely getting by. but that feeling is alive. & if you just hold on, just find the courage to face it all for another day, someone or something will find you & make it all okay. cause we all need a little help sometimes. someone to help us hear the music in our world, to remind us that it wont always be this way. that someone is out there, & that someone will find you * One Tree Hill * most of the time we cant tell whats wrong with somebody by just looking at them. after all, they can look perfectly fine on the outside while their insides tell us a different story * Greys Anatomy tragedy blows through your life like a tornado, uprooting everything, creating chaos. you wait for the dust to settle, & then you choose; you can live in the wreckage & pretend its still the mansion you remember, or you can crawl from the rubble & slowly rebuild. because after disaster strikes, the important thing is that you move on. but if you're like me, you just keep chasing the storm * Veronica Mars * | | |
| never ignore a gut feeling, but never believe it`s enough this is to the nights when you dealt with more drama than you wanted to because you're a nice person. to the nights that you drank too much &made mistakes that no one forgot for months & months. this is to the nights that you hooked up with that guy, feeling used & alone after. to the nights you would've rather stayed home, watching movies, but instead got dressed up in clothes that werent as comfortable as your sweatpants, went to that party that you really didnt want to be at, to find the boy you like there with another girl. to the nights that you cant wait until everyone grows up, because you're tired of everyone around you judging you. to those nights, that unfortunately came too soon you want more money - people are in poverty. you want a boyfriend - someone doesnt even have parents. you're hungry - a child is starving. you want to go to the mall - someone is looking for anything to wear just to stay warm. you're chilly - others are frozen. you just want to die - others just want to live. so dont waste your time on things you think you want because theres always someone out there who needs it more than you could possibly know The problem with emotions is you can't rely on them; they're not trustworthy. Emotions will come & go and it's easy to make an impulsive decision when wrapped up in emotion. But you have to have something you can fall back on when there's not any emotion anymore. Emotion must become action for it to stay, and this action must become a foundation. So, therefore, love isn't an emotion; it’s an action. if i could make a livin outta lovin' you; i'd be a millionaire in a week or two. there comes a point in life where everything turns around. people change & times arent always what they used to be. you're going to lose things you love, & be haunted with things you hate. people who you trusted are going to talk behind your back & secrets wont always be kept. some people could careless & others would be behind you every step of the way. & throughout your entire life, you'll always remember the people that were there for you no one wants to drown. drowning would be the worst. because everyone knows that feeling, oh its the worst when you think you're drowning. like during last summer you're at a pool party or something, "im going in the deep end, watch my dive!" right. & then you dive in, & the second you get to the bottom you're like "get me out of here, wheres the surface!?" & you always come up under the fat kid on the raft. "Oh Jesus, Timmy! do not float above me when im dying in the abyss! float away, float away from me" * Dane Cook * you start out life with a clean slate. then you begin to make your mark. you face decisions, make choices, you keep moving forward. but eventually there comes a time when you look back over where you've been & wonder who you really are you can't hit a home run unless you step up to the plate. you can't catch a fish unless you put you're line in the water. you can't reach you're goals if you dont try. one SONG can spark a moment one FLOWER can wake a dream one TREE can start a forest one BIRD can herald spring one SMILE brings a friendship one HAND CLASP lifes a soul one STAR can guide a ship at sea one WORD can frame a goal one VOTE can change a nation one SUNBEAM lights a room one CANDLE wipes out darkness one LAUGH can conquer gloom one STEP must start each journey one WORD must start each prayer one HOPE will ris our spirits one TOUCH can show you care one VOICE can speak with wisdom one HEART can know what's true one LIFE can make a difference you see.. it's up to you MEN ARE LIKE.. + laxitives; they irritate the crap outta you. + bannanas; the older they get, the less firm they are. + weather; nothing can be done to change them. + blenders; you need one, but you're not quite sure why. + chocolate bars; sweet, smooth, & they usually head right for your hips. + commercials; you can't believe a word they say. + department stores; their clothes are always half off. + government bonds; they take so long to mature. + mascara; they run at the first site of emotion. + popcorn; they satisfy you, but only for a little while. + snowstorms; you never know when they are coming, how many inches you'll get, or how long it will last.. + lavalamps; fun to look at, but not very bright. + parking spots; all the good ones are taken, and the rest are handicapped. | | |
| The heart is an amazing organ, Preston taught me that. The heart makes sure that the body receives what it needs. But the most important thing about the heart is that it is an involuntary muscle. You can`t control who you love, Meredith. You can`t control when you lose your heart. The only thing you can do is trust ; trust that the person who has your heart realizes its value. + Grey`s Anatomy A husband asks: Why do you weep & snuffle over a TV program & the imaginary sadness of people you have never met? Wife: For the same reason you scream & yell when a man you don`t know makes a touchdown Je vous aime-French Te quiero-Spanish L'amo-Italian The language doesnt matter, just know that i love you It's not a quote, until you write it down it's not a phrase until you say it. You dont know love until you experience it Sometimes you have to be like Kelly Clarkson. Youve got to breakaway from the past, say youre so moving on since HES been gone, let people know whats behind YOUR hazel eyes, realize you got far in your life all because of you and the people you love, let that person whos pissing you off know that youe already gone, love being addicted to the one you love, make sure you know where YOUR heart is, walk away from your problems, be thankful that someone found you, stop hating yourself for losing him, make sure people can hear you and you can hear them, and know that life can be such a beautiful disaster. what you don't know can't hurt you, it's what we suspect that screws everything up As you go through life you'll see there is so much that we don't understand. & the only thing we know is things don't always go the way we planned.. -Lion King you only hate him because you don't have him because hating him is easier then admitting he hurt you, that he got away and you'd do anything not to hurt we learn to deal with things our own way. a lot of the time people want to help, but when they try to, it just makes the whole thing more upsetting cause then you realize you can't be helped. maybe you're trapped in this mess, and all you need to do is just take a step away from the situation, and look at it from the outside in, and realize, 'hey, this is my life - take it or leave it. look between the lines read between the words because the most important things are left unsaid & unheard | | |
| When the broken hearts are mended and the many tears are dried, you learn. You see that the world doesn't end just cause you think it will, and that sometimes growing up means letting go. You learn what real love is, and you begin to see that one friend who really cares is better than a hundred friends who don't. You learn that you can be strong, take each day step-by-step, and survive every sad moment. So feel the pain and cry the tears, go out and experience life. But when you're at the end of your rope, and you're ready to jump off that ledge, remember that heartaches fade, pain subsides, and though life seems at times too tough to handle, it's also too precious a gift to waste. Keep on living, never give up, and remember: as you grow, you learn When I look at you, I see a lot of things: my best friend, my boyfriend, my secret holder, my tear stopper, && my future. We wonder why black & white photos capture our soul. I think it's cause without color, we aren't drawn to the makeup, & the color of our eyes, or our hair, or how tan our skin is. Black & white captures the innocence on ones face & the hurt they've gone through to feel vulnerability. The glow we see comes from the inside. Brightening our eyes, our skin, & our smile. It grabs the truth that liberates us being young is brutal, but the best part is you can change yourself. you can become what you want yourself to be. it's entirely easy if you just stop letting other peoples opinions dictate your actions. enjoy the challenge and in ten years you'll be everything you thought you could be. anyone who is doubting this is still living with fear in their heart Some things are meant to happen. Some things are bound to be. Love has a way of making doubting hearts believe. Sometimes in spite of difference, sometimes against all odds, some things are meant to happen. It`s written in the stars. We all want to fall in love. Why? Cause that experience makes us feel completely alive. Where every sense is heightened, every emotion is magnified, our everyday reality is shattered & we are flying into the heavens. It may only last a moment, an hour, an afternoon. But that doesn`t diminish its value. Cause we are left with memories that we`ll treasure for the rest of our lives in my lifetime I’ve come to realize that youu can’t depend upon other people for what youu want and youu can’t be scared to go out there and get it. youu have to dream hard, wish big, and chase after your goals, because no one is going to do it for youu and even if things don’t work out, youu’ll always be able to say youu tried A friend would lend you an umbrella in the rain, but a true friend would take yours & scream "RUN, BITCH, RUN!!" i'm tired of the judgement, i'm tired if the looks, i'm tired of the people saying "that girl's no good." i'm my own person, i'm just not you, so stop judging me and start concentrating on you. The words that escape a friend's mouth are, "I'll be there when you say you need me." But the words that are unheard from a true friend's heart are, "I'll be there whether you say you need me or not." & the trouble is, if you don`t risk anything, you risk even more. + Erica Jong love is like lightning - - you get struck once & baby, [ i t k i l l s ] you might hide behind your computer screen. & i might hide behind my music, & she might hide behind her sports. but the truth of it is, we all have something that we're hiding. & maybe we should stop running for cover, because what might happen when those things can't defend us anymore? To get up in the morning only to know that you'll have to face another obstacle takes strength. To smile when the only thing you can do is cry takes bravery. To act happy & laugh when you know that times are at their worst takes courage. To be joyful when the only good news is the best of the bad news takes support. To be there & help others through the roughest times in life takes love.. | | |
| my wish for you; is that life becomes all that you want it to be. may your dreams stay big, & your worries stay small. & you never need to carry more than you can hold. & while your out there getting where you`re getting to, i hope you know that somebody loves you. nobody`s perfect, but some people are perfect for eachother. <3 THE TEENAGE YEARS ARE THE BEST YEARS OF OUR LiFE; even though theres tons of drama, tears & heartbreaks, there`s also the friends that you trust, & will never leave your side. theres the boy who whenever you see, you get those butterflies in your stomach. there`s parties, breaking the rules and falling in love. now tell me, what other time in your life are you going to be able to have all these things at once? communication. it`s the first thing we really learn in life. funny thing is, once we grow up, learn our words, and really start talking, the harder it becomes to know what to say or how to ask for what we really need. as we lie beneath the stars we realize how small we are of they could love like you & me imagine what the world could be. | | |
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